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Simplifying Thanksgiving

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“Therefore, as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him, rooted and built up in him and estab­lished in the faith, just as you were taught, abound­ing in thanksgiving.”
Colos­sians 2:6-7

How do you pur­pose­fully cel­e­brate Thanks­giv­ing and yet make it an enjoy­able and rest­ful event?

First and fore­most, be thank­ful! I have been redeemed and thus my life should flow with thanks­giv­ing! A heart of thanks­giv­ing results in a spirit of con­tent­ment, a heart of peace and rest in God’s good­ness and ulti­mately will pro­vide the only true rest­ful and simple hol­i­day. Our hearts must be in the right place! We can have a beau­ti­fully dec­o­rated house, per­fect arrange­ment of food, and yet with­out love and thanks­giv­ing all our efforts will be in vain and bring stress rather than rest.

Keep the menu simple and bal­anced- one pro­tein (turkey or other meat), one starch (sweet potato dish), one veg­etable and one dessert! Divide the labor between family mem­bers and guests.

Read the his­tory of Thanks­giv­ing and share what you are thank­ful for this year. A great resource is The Thanks­giv­ing Primer offered by Vision Forum. Another resource rec­om­mended by a reader is Thanks­giv­ing: A Time to Remem­ber.
Include others - is there any indi­vid­u­als (i.e. inter­na­tional stu­dents) or fam­i­lies that don’t have rel­a­tives in the area? Include others as a way of reach­ing out in your com­mu­nity. If you look around, there are many lonely people during the season.
Watch a family clas­sic movie - The Grinch has always been both of our family’s favorite. I can’t say I enjoy it so much, but it is tra­di­tion, every­one says! For the top ten Thanks­giv­ing movies, visit here.

A few fun projects for families:

Thanks­giv­ing Craft Ideas - a pdf full of fun pur­pose­ful Thanks­giv­ing crafts offered from Vision Forum. Includes a little menu craft for your thanks­giv­ing cel­e­bra­tion in which to write the 5 Ker­nels of Corn Poem.
Thanks­giv­ing Place set­ting Ideas-
Legend of the 5 Ker­nels
Thanks­giv­ing Gar­land
Edible Turkeys

Thanks­giv­ing Corn Craft

Free Thanks­giv­ing Col­or­ing Pages

Print­able Native Amer­i­can Head­dress
Thanks­giv­ing Paper Chain - each chain rep­re­sents some­thing you are thank­ful for, keep adding through­out the season!

Above all, just enjoy being together!

The floor is open to hear your thoughts and cre­ative ideas for Thanksgiving!

For further ideas, check out Thanksgiving on A Budget.

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11 Responses to “Simplifying Thanksgiving”

  1. sara says:

    Every year, a group of our clos­est grad­u­ate school friends hosts a Thanks­giv­ing dinner. It’s simple for every­one because they bring one or 2 dishes and we have a huge potluck dinner! What I love best is that the focus of the dinner is shar­ing Thanks­giv­ing with hun­dreds of inter­na­tional stu­dents who have never tasted turkey, stuff­ing or pump­kin pie before; and many of whom have never heard the Thanks­giv­ing story! We share the his­tory of Thanks­giv­ing either through a skit, a sto­ry­book or 20-questions, and spend time shar­ing what this hol­i­day means to us as Chris­tians. I love that the day is simple, focused on shar­ing the love of Christ with others, and pro­vides an oppor­tu­nity to share what we are thank­ful for!

  2. sadly we won’t be able to do this this year, but we host a thanks­giv­ing dinner the sat­ur­day before thanks­giv­ing for single ser­vice men and women from our base and my hus­bands squadron. These guys, espe­cially the young ones, are often lonely this time of year and in need of a fresh home­cooked meal. It is truly a pow­er­ful, won­der­ful time!

  3. Julie says:

    We like to read Bar­bara Rainey’s book, Thanks­giv­ing, a Time to Remem­ber. I’m host­ing a give­away for it on my blog (until Friday 11/14):

    http://​fun​ma​jors.​blogspot.​com/​2​0​0​8​/​1​1​/​b​e​i​n​g​-​t​h​a​n​k​f​u​l​.html

  4. Read­ing Thanks­giv­ing, A Time to Remem­ber is one of our favorite things we do all year! After we finish each night’s read­ing, we reen­act what we’ve read. It’s great fun and has really helped the true story of Thanks­giv­ing stick in the kids’ heads. I LOVE read­ing all of our thank­ful cards from over the years.

  5. Sim­plify Thanks­giv­ing? Is it pos­si­ble? ;) Living in Alaska, many people are apart from their extended fam­i­lies. We’ve joined in the tra­di­tion of meet­ing with the church on Thanks­giv­ing day for a huge feast (with every woman bring­ing one or two deli­cious favorites, it gets big very quickly). We eat together and then spend the after­noon fel­low­ship­ping, play­ing games, and par­tic­i­pat­ing in a fun talent show. If we only invited the indi­ans, I think it would be very like the orig­i­nal occa­sion. But speak­ing of invit­ing people, sev­eral people from the com­mu­nity that were invited to be with the church last Thanks­giv­ing have stayed on with us the entire year and have become our good friends. While I do miss the inti­mate family gath­er­ings, I love the cama­raderie and con­nect­ed­ness that comes with our Chris­t­ian family at these large gath­er­ings.

  6. Jane Anne says:

    This is a great post! I am going to have to check out some of your links. Another won­der­ful way to cel­e­brate is to send Thank You notes to friends. Thank them for being who they are and tell them how much they mean to you. Awe­some post!

  7. Theresa says:

    Thanks­giv­ing is my FAVORITE hol­i­day! It’s when I get the most home­sick every year because my Hubby’s family don’t do any­thing. I’ve enjoyed doing it in school with the kids as I have so many happy mem­o­ries with my Grandma who loved having all of us around her tables. She always gave us jobs to do - making spe­cial name cards, look­ing up thanks­giv­ing scrip­tures etc and helped us kids to learn by taking part! She was def­i­nitely a Titus 2 woman! I’m having fun with the links.

  8. judy says:

    thanks Lind­sey! A fab­u­lous post.

  9. Kate says:

    Sim­plify Thanks­giv­ing? Not in our family. Lots of great food, fel­low­ship, family and friends! At our gro­cery store we get a free turkey w/so many points. We have both our fam­i­lies over then some friends, and anyone who doesn’t have a place to go to.

    The guys will go the den and watch foot­ball, the ladies will chat in the kitchen w/the chil­dren play­ing nearby. Some Christ­mas movie is play­ing.
    I like to sim­plify at other times of the year, just not the hol­i­days.

    Our favorite Thanks­giv­ing movies include:

    Home Alone 1 or 2
    ET
    Christ­mas Vaca­tion (this gets watched on Christ­mas Day as well lol)

  10. WE have so many tra­di­tions that we embrace during the hol­i­days, and a lot of the ones that you have listed, we love as well. Our entire family meets in the moun­tains and we stay at hotel (4 of us chil­dren - 29 grand­kids between us). It is a mag­i­cal time for the cousins, and iron­i­cally, our Thanks­giv­ing has become so sim­pli­fied that one year when our tra­di­tional restau­rant was closed on Thanks­giv­ing, we ended up at Golden Coral. It’s a hilar­i­ous story, but now…it’s tra­di­tion. Yes, a bunch of home school bread baking sister in laws enjoy­ing the bounty of Golden Coral - who would have ever thought it. :)

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